Michelle Obama Shuts Down Speculation About Her Marriage: “I’m Just Making My Own Choices”

Michelle Obama has addressed ongoing rumors suggesting there may be trouble in her marriage to former U.S. President Barack Obama, firmly setting the record straight.

In a candid conversation on the Work in Progress podcast hosted by actress Sophia Bush, the former First Lady emphasized that her recent absence from certain high-profile public events doesn’t signal any problems in her relationship, it simply reflects her decision to prioritize herself.

“People couldn’t imagine that I was simply doing what felt right for me,” Michelle shared. “Instead, they jumped to conclusions, assuming Barack and I must be divorcing.”

Speculation grew after Michelle was not seen at events like Donald Trump’s inauguration and the memorial service for former President Jimmy Carter. But she explained that as an independent woman, she now has the power to take full control of her schedule and she’s doing just that.

“There’s always pressure, especially on women, to show up for everything and everyone. And when we don’t, it’s as if something must be wrong,” she noted. “But this year, I made intentional choices based on what’s best for me, not based on obligation.”

Michelle admitted there was some guilt tied to stepping away from traditional expectations, saying many women struggle with the idea of letting others down. “It’s hard to disappoint people,” she said. “But I had to put myself first.”

Despite carving out more personal space, Michelle is far from stepping out of the spotlight. She delivered a passionate speech at last summer’s Democratic National Convention, rallying support for Kamala Harris and delivering a message of optimism: “Hope is making a comeback.”

She continues to remain actively involved in public service, championing girls’ education and other initiatives she cares deeply about. “I’m still speaking out, still working on projects, still engaged,” she added.

Michelle and Barack Obama recently celebrated their 32nd wedding anniversary, a milestone she proudly highlighted.

In her memoir Becoming, Michelle previously opened up about the challenges they faced during Barack’s political career, describing periods of deep personal sacrifice and emotional strain. But through it all, their bond has endured.

So, for anyone still speculating: Michelle Obama is doing just fine, on her own terms.